The traditional almanac 通勝 approach to choosing when to get married: find a day the almanac marks as favourable 宜, then check that neither person's clash zodiac falls on that day. These are tendencies, not guarantees — tradition treats timing as one factor among many.
Wedding / marriage 嫁娶Send betrothal gifts 纳采Engagement 订盟
Clash: rest day if you were born in a Monkey 猴 year
宜
Fri2027-08-06七月初五Day officer: Open 开
Wedding / marriage 嫁娶Worship ancestors / make offerings 祭祀塑绘
Clash: rest day if you were born in a Pig 猪 year
宜
Fri2027-08-13七月十二Day officer: Settle 定
Wedding / marriage 嫁娶Worship ancestors / make offerings 祭祀Pray for blessings 祈福
Clash: rest day if you were born in a Horse 马 year
宜
Mon2027-08-16七月十五Day officer: Danger 危
Wedding / marriage 嫁娶Consecrate statues (kai guang) 开光Worship ancestors / make offerings 祭祀
Clash: rest day if you were born in a Rooster 鸡 year
宜
Wed2027-08-18七月十七Day officer: Receive 收
Wedding / marriage 嫁娶Worship ancestors / make offerings 祭祀Pray for blessings 祈福
Clash: rest day if you were born in a Pig 猪 year
宜
Thu2027-08-19七月十八Day officer: Open 开
Wedding / marriage 嫁娶Send betrothal gifts 纳采Engagement 订盟
Clash: rest day if you were born in a Rat 鼠 year
宜
Sat2027-08-21七月二十Day officer: Establish 建
Wedding / marriage 嫁娶Send betrothal gifts 纳采Engagement 订盟
Clash: rest day if you were born in a Tiger 虎 year
宜
Mon2027-08-23七月廿二Day officer: Full 满
Wedding / marriage 嫁娶Ritual bathing / cleansing 沐浴理发
Clash: rest day if you were born in a Dragon 龙 year
宜
Wed2027-08-25七月廿四Day officer: Settle 定
Wedding / marriage 嫁娶Send betrothal gifts 纳采Engagement 订盟
Clash: rest day if you were born in a Horse 马 year
宜
Sun2027-08-29七月廿八Day officer: Success 成
Wedding / marriage 嫁娶Worship ancestors / make offerings 祭祀Pray for blessings 祈福
Clash: rest day if you were born in a Dog 狗 year
宜
Mon2027-08-30七月廿九Day officer: Receive 收
Wedding / marriage 嫁娶Engagement 订盟Send betrothal gifts 纳采
Clash: rest day if you were born in a Pig 猪 year
宜
Tue2027-08-31七月三十Day officer: Open 开
Wedding / marriage 嫁娶Engagement 订盟Send betrothal gifts 纳采
Clash: rest day if you were born in a Rat 鼠 year
September 9月
宜
Wed2027-09-01八月初一Day officer: Close 闭
Wedding / marriage 嫁娶普渡Worship ancestors / make offerings 祭祀
Clash: rest day if you were born in a Ox 牛 year
宜
Thu2027-09-02八月初二Day officer: Establish 建
Wedding / marriage 嫁娶Coming-of-age ceremony 冠笄Worship ancestors / make offerings 祭祀
Clash: rest day if you were born in a Tiger 虎 year
宜
Sat2027-09-04八月初四Day officer: Full 满
Wedding / marriage 嫁娶塑绘Coming-of-age ceremony 冠笄
Clash: rest day if you were born in a Dragon 龙 year
宜
Mon2027-09-06八月初六Day officer: Settle 定
Wedding / marriage 嫁娶Send betrothal gifts 纳采Engagement 订盟
Clash: rest day if you were born in a Horse 马 year
宜
Fri2027-09-10八月初十Day officer: Danger 危
Wedding / marriage 嫁娶Send betrothal gifts 纳采Engagement 订盟
Clash: rest day if you were born in a Dog 狗 year
宜
Sun2027-09-12八月十二Day officer: Receive 收
Wedding / marriage 嫁娶Worship ancestors / make offerings 祭祀理发
Clash: rest day if you were born in a Rat 鼠 year
宜
Tue2027-09-14八月十四Day officer: Close 闭
Wedding / marriage 嫁娶Coming-of-age ceremony 冠笄Install machinery 安机械
Clash: rest day if you were born in a Tiger 虎 year
宜
Thu2027-09-16八月十六Day officer: Remove 除
Wedding / marriage 嫁娶Send betrothal gifts 纳采Worship ancestors / make offerings 祭祀
Clash: rest day if you were born in a Dragon 龙 year
宜
Wed2027-09-22八月廿二Day officer: Danger 危
Wedding / marriage 嫁娶Send betrothal gifts 纳采Engagement 订盟
Clash: rest day if you were born in a Dog 狗 year
宜
Thu2027-09-23八月廿三Day officer: Success 成
Wedding / marriage 嫁娶Send betrothal gifts 纳采Engagement 订盟
Clash: rest day if you were born in a Pig 猪 year
宜
Tue2027-09-28八月廿八Day officer: Remove 除
Wedding / marriage 嫁娶Engagement 订盟Send betrothal gifts 纳采
Clash: rest day if you were born in a Dragon 龙 year
October 10月
宜
Fri2027-10-01九月初二Day officer: Settle 定
Wedding / marriage 嫁娶造车器Install machinery 安机械
Clash: rest day if you were born in a Goat 羊 year
宜
Tue2027-10-05九月初六Day officer: Success 成
Wedding / marriage 嫁娶Consecrate statues (kai guang) 开光Pray for children 求嗣
Clash: rest day if you were born in a Pig 猪 year
宜
Wed2027-10-06九月初七Day officer: Receive 收
Wedding / marriage 嫁娶Worship ancestors / make offerings 祭祀Catch pests / hunt 捕捉
Clash: rest day if you were born in a Rat 鼠 year
宜
Fri2027-10-08九月初九Day officer: Open 开
Wedding / marriage 嫁娶Worship ancestors / make offerings 祭祀Pray for blessings 祈福
Clash: rest day if you were born in a Tiger 虎 year
宜
Sat2027-10-09九月初十Day officer: Close 闭
Wedding / marriage 嫁娶Worship ancestors / make offerings 祭祀Pray for blessings 祈福
Clash: rest day if you were born in a Rabbit 兔 year
宜
Fri2027-10-15九月十六Day officer: Hold 执
Wedding / marriage 嫁娶Worship ancestors / make offerings 祭祀Pray for blessings 祈福
Clash: rest day if you were born in a Rooster 鸡 year
宜
Mon2027-10-18九月十九Day officer: Success 成
Wedding / marriage 嫁娶Send betrothal gifts 纳采Engagement 订盟
Clash: rest day if you were born in a Rat 鼠 year
宜
Wed2027-10-20九月廿一Day officer: Open 开
Wedding / marriage 嫁娶Worship ancestors / make offerings 祭祀Pray for blessings 祈福
Clash: rest day if you were born in a Tiger 虎 year
宜
Thu2027-10-21九月廿二Day officer: Close 闭
Wedding / marriage 嫁娶裁衣Coming-of-age ceremony 冠笄
Clash: rest day if you were born in a Rabbit 兔 year
宜
Wed2027-10-27九月廿八Day officer: Hold 执
Wedding / marriage 嫁娶Send betrothal gifts 纳采Engagement 订盟
Clash: rest day if you were born in a Rooster 鸡 year
宜
Sat2027-10-30十月初二Day officer: Success 成
Wedding / marriage 嫁娶造车器Engagement 订盟
Clash: rest day if you were born in a Rat 鼠 year
November 11月
宜
Mon2027-11-01十月初四Day officer: Open 开
Wedding / marriage 嫁娶Engagement 订盟Send betrothal gifts 纳采
Clash: rest day if you were born in a Tiger 虎 year
宜
Wed2027-11-03十月初六Day officer: Establish 建
Wedding / marriage 嫁娶Send betrothal gifts 纳采Engagement 订盟
Clash: rest day if you were born in a Dragon 龙 year
宜
Sun2027-11-07十月初十Day officer: Balance 平
Wedding / marriage 嫁娶Consecrate statues (kai guang) 开光Travel / go on a trip 出行
Clash: rest day if you were born in a Monkey 猴 year
宜
Mon2027-11-08十月十一Day officer: Settle 定
Wedding / marriage 嫁娶Worship ancestors / make offerings 祭祀Pray for blessings 祈福
Clash: rest day if you were born in a Rooster 鸡 year
宜
Thu2027-11-11十月十四Day officer: Danger 危
Wedding / marriage 嫁娶Send betrothal gifts 纳采Engagement 订盟
Clash: rest day if you were born in a Rat 鼠 year
宜
Sun2027-11-14十月十七Day officer: Open 开
Wedding / marriage 嫁娶Coming-of-age ceremony 冠笄Worship ancestors / make offerings 祭祀
Clash: rest day if you were born in a Rabbit 兔 year
宜
Mon2027-11-15十月十八Day officer: Close 闭
Wedding / marriage 嫁娶Make the bridal bed canopy 合帐裁衣
Clash: rest day if you were born in a Dragon 龙 year
宜
Wed2027-11-17十月二十Day officer: Remove 除
Wedding / marriage 嫁娶Send betrothal gifts 纳采Engagement 订盟
Clash: rest day if you were born in a Horse 马 year
宜
Sat2027-11-20十月廿三Day officer: Settle 定
Wedding / marriage 嫁娶Send betrothal gifts 纳采Engagement 订盟
Clash: rest day if you were born in a Rooster 鸡 year
宜
Sun2027-11-21十月廿四Day officer: Hold 执
Wedding / marriage 嫁娶Send betrothal gifts 纳采Engagement 订盟
Clash: rest day if you were born in a Dog 狗 year
宜
Mon2027-11-29冬月初二Day officer: Remove 除
Wedding / marriage 嫁娶造车器Travel / go on a trip 出行
Clash: rest day if you were born in a Horse 马 year
December 12月
宜
Fri2027-12-03冬月初六Day officer: Hold 执
Wedding / marriage 嫁娶Engagement 订盟Send betrothal gifts 纳采
Clash: rest day if you were born in a Dog 狗 year
宜
Sun2027-12-05冬月初八Day officer: Danger 危
Wedding / marriage 嫁娶Send betrothal gifts 纳采Engagement 订盟
Clash: rest day if you were born in a Rat 鼠 year
宜
Sun2027-12-12冬月十五Day officer: Remove 除
Wedding / marriage 嫁娶Send betrothal gifts 纳采Engagement 订盟
Clash: rest day if you were born in a Goat 羊 year
宜
Thu2027-12-16冬月十九Day officer: Hold 执
Wedding / marriage 嫁娶Coming-of-age ceremony 冠笄Worship ancestors / make offerings 祭祀
Clash: rest day if you were born in a Pig 猪 year
宜
Sun2027-12-19冬月廿二Day officer: Success 成
Wedding / marriage 嫁娶Worship ancestors / make offerings 祭祀Pray for blessings 祈福
Clash: rest day if you were born in a Tiger 虎 year
宜
Mon2027-12-27冬月三十Day officer: Settle 定
Wedding / marriage 嫁娶Coming-of-age ceremony 冠笄Worship ancestors / make offerings 祭祀
Clash: rest day if you were born in a Dog 狗 year
宜
Tue2027-12-28腊月初一Day officer: Hold 执
Wedding / marriage 嫁娶Engagement 订盟Send betrothal gifts 纳采
Clash: rest day if you were born in a Pig 猪 year
The right date also depends on the couple's charts 命 — zodiac, Day Master, and Four Pillars. A day the almanac marks as generally good may still conflict with one partner's clash day.
The Tung Shing 通勝 lists days where the favoured activities 宜 include 嫁娶. The day officer, heavenly stems, and earthly branches all contribute to the verdict.
Do these dates work for everyone?
These are general almanac days — a good starting point. Whether a specific date suits you personally also depends on your birth chart and zodiac. The tradition recommends checking that neither person's clash zodiac falls on the chosen day.